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At the start of a relationship, everything seems to be beautiful. Love is in the air, and you can’t get your hands off one another. However, the sparks die down as time goes by, and there is little to no intimacy in your relationship. Research reveals that 15% of couples are stuck in a sexless marriage with no hope of reigniting their intimacy. Let’s delve in and explore some clever ways you can leverage to spice up your relationship. 

Schedule regular date nights 

Date nights can help revive the spark in your relationship, especially if you have been together for a long time. Dressing up and going somewhere nice for a few hours can also help you reconnect and repair your sex life. Ensure you set ground rules for your date night, such as keeping your phones away and not discussing the kids, finances, or family matters. 

Communicate your needs and fantasies 

Communication is key to the success of any relationship. Different people have different views on sexual intimacy. You might long for physical touch and sexual satisfaction while your partner might consider sex trivial and not a big deal. It would help to communicate about sex with your partner, what it means to you and what fantasies you would like them to fulfill. 

Try some quirky gifts

Gifts are an excellent way to show your partner that you care. For instance, if your sex life has gotten a bit slow over the years, you could get your man erotic sex toys like masturbators for men to spruce things up in the bedroom. You could also get yourself some sexy lingerie and surprise your partner when they get off work. 

Consider a change in scenery

The family residence could create an unconducive environment for cozying up with your partner. It is quite challenging to get some action between the sheets when the kids are making noise, or the sink is full of dishes. It would help to schedule some time away from the house so that you can be alone with your significant other. A change in scenery could also inject some excitement into your relationship. 

Speak your partner’s love language 

By now, you have probably read about the five love languages. It would help to know your partner’s love language, so you are in a position to meet their deep emotional and psychological needs. Your partner will never truly feel loved if you don’t convey your love for them in a way they can understand. 

Have empathy for your partner

Your partner might be under a lot of stress that they are no longer in the mood for sex. Every time they turn you down, you are left feeling unwanted and unloved. However, it would help to put yourself in their shoes. Try to understand what they are going through and let them understand your need for affection and intimacy so you can reach common ground. 

Final thoughts

The hustle and bustle of life can weigh down you, making you spend less quality time with your partner. However, if you put in some effort, you can restore your relationship and your sex life to how it was during your honeymoon phase. For additional tips, go check out Cupid's Light.

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